Green fingered wedding - part 2

Leann updates us on the run up to her eco friendly wedding ...

Four weeks to go! What happened to July?

The feeling that there isn’t time to get everything done is mounting and worry is beginning to set-in, have we paid for everything? How many people have we forgotten to invite? Do all the suppliers still have what we like? It’s quite hard to stick to the ethical ideals when last minute jobs come-up, the temptation is to do the first or easiest thing that comes to mind to get it done but then you know that you’ll feel bad on the day with the niggling feeling that something wasn’t right.

The dress is finally hanging in the wardrobe! My Nan’s wedding dress from 1952 features prominently against the new hemp/silk fabric and looks much nicer after a gentle wash and line dry; we forgot how many people smoked back in ’52 and were really surprised when the fabric revealed itself as a beautiful ivory instead of a dingy taupe!

Matt’s outfit has been a tad more troublesome though. We’ve been frustrated at the lack of choices for eco-conscious menswear. The options for women’s’ clothing is really very good (almost everything from tie-dye vests to sharp designer tailoring and can be found if you search hard) but looking at the menswear options on most sites, you would think that men wore nothing but T-shirts, boxer shorts and socks! We finally discovered British company Quail by Mail, whose selection of well tailored but not too formal shirts hit the right note and Matt is smiling again.

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70 metres (yes 70!) of home-made bunting made from salvaged calico, fabric remnants and old clothes now sits in our spare bedroom on a huge roll amid the increasing boxes of organic wine, recycled napkins and tombola prizes (yep, that’s right!) We decided that we should go the whole hog with the village fete idea and have a tombola stall to raise some money for the venue. All of the prizes are ethical in some way (organic chocolate, recycled stationary and notebooks, hemp and fair-trade cotton clothing and energy saving gadgets) so while our guests have some fun they also get a look at a whole range of ethical products. We even managed to pick up some recycled raffle tickets. LoveLula liked the idea and kindly donated a prize which they sent over with my last order of Elysambre and Lavera make-up (I’ve now completed the make-up switch over, including face masks and cleansers!).

The wedding collective (seven couples using the same venue this summer) have come up with a range of things that we can borrow and share, including coloured hay bales (ex-window display), fabric for curtains and drapes, and giant children’s games. We all put in together to buy long lengths of low voltage LED fairy lights that can stay up for the whole season, meaning we spent £16 each instead of hundreds and only bought one set of lights.

A couple of ideas have changed a little.
We’ve decided not to buy soy wax tea lights, not because they aren’t the best option, but because we found a whole pile of unused tea lights leftover from an event and decided that it was perfectly OK to use something that we already had than buy another new item (however ethical the new item was). Something similar happened while we were searching for recycled paper tablecloths (hard to come by, especially plain ones) when my aunt announced she had half a banquet roll sitting in the attic leftover from my cousin’s wedding a few years ago. We’re going to leave coloured pencils out on the tables and pick out the best pieces of ‘tablecloth art’ for our wedding album. The rest can be recycled.

wedding_potatos.jpgOn the food front we’re getting lots of news in from our guests about how well (or not) their herb pots are doing, so we can’t wait to see them all arrive on the day. We’re also looking forward to tasting the Elderflower champagne that our dear friends have managed to brew!

And concerned that we might have to come up with a Plan B, we couldn’t resist the temptation to dig up a couple of our potato plants to see if we had managed to grow anything. If the first two plants are a good indicator, we will have enough decent potatoes to feed all the guests, though they look a little small for jackets so we might end up with wedges instead.
Digging day planned for August Bank Holiday just before chaos ensues!

Thanks for the update Leann, your plans are inspirational!

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